I tried to get support for 4 straight days so I didn't cancel my hosting.
I helped you extensively right up until you cancelled on the 11th and shut everything down, saying that you had already moved to other hosting and wanted a refund. The 11th was a busy Saturday and I knew that I did not have the hours it would take to discuss and consider your refund question with you over the weekend, so I waited to respond in that particular thread (which was assigned to me) until the 13th. This was not four days.
...the lag was coming from the bandwidth...
This wasn't the case as far as I could see in my investigations on this side, but I was willing to look into it, as I mentioned. I asked for traceroutes, which would show us whether it actually was a routing/network problem, and you were unwilling to provide them. I ran several long-term MTRs from this end behind the scenes from your machine and was unable to find a problem.
I was dedicated to resolving your problem and in testing whatever might help you.
You could post the full support request thread here. It will show the entire process.